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How to Avoid the Trap of Bitterness

Updated: Aug 4, 2021



Have you ever wondered, Why did God let me suffer that injury? lose my job? have a car accident? forget that appointment? have a fight with my spouse? let my parents get divorced? let me be born with a defect? How can a God who loves me allow me to experience pain and suffering? It just doesn’t seem to add up. When bad things happen, we want answers.


The truth is you can’t know all the reasons why God lets bad things happen. We live in a world that is ruined by sin, so difficulties and disappointments are bound to cross our path. Nevertheless, if you ask God for discernment, you can begin to understand why He allowed something to occur. You can also discover how God can redeem the situation and bring benefits to your life as a result of suffering.


Romans 8:28 (NKJV)

And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.


Searching for God’s answers and learning to view “bad things” as “good things in disguise” are disciplines that God wants His children to develop as they mature spiritually.

Unless you accept God’s grace to deal with suffering, inevitably you will become bitter. However, if you choose to trust God to bring about His purposes through the suffering, you can avoid the trap of bitterness and grow in the grace and knowledge of the Lord.


2 Peter 3:18 (NKJV)

but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

To Him be the glory both now and forever. Amen.


You can be confident that God will not allow anything to happen to you without His permission, and He will not let any “bad thing” happen that will not ultimately bring you more good than destruction.


1 Peter 4:12-13 (NKJV)

Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the fiery trial, which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you; but rejoice to the extent that you partake of Christ’s sufferings, that when His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding joy.


We must always be wary of allowing “bitter roots” to grow in our hearts; such roots will cause us to fall short of the grace of God.


God wills that His people live in love, joy, peace, and holiness—not in bitterness. Therefore, the believer must always watch diligently, being on guard against the dangers of bitterness.


God Bless, Israel

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Julio Feliciano
Julio Feliciano
Aug 04, 2021


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Julio Feliciano
Julio Feliciano
Aug 04, 2021

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